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사랑의 기술10

childish illusion Inasmuch as God is the father, I am the child. I have not emerged fully from the autistic wish for omniscience and omnipotence. I have not yet acquired the objectivity to realize my limitations as a human being, my ignorance, my helplessness. I still claim, like a child, that there must be a father who rescues me, who watches me, who punishes me, a father who likes me when I am obedient, who is .. 2008. 10. 16.
Marx expressed, Assume man as man, and his relation to the world as a human one, and you can exchange love only for love, confidence for ocnfidence, etc. If you wish to enjoy art, you must be and artistically trained person; if you wish to have influence on other people, you must be a person who has a really stimulating and furthering influence on other people. Every one of your relationship to man and to natur.. 2008. 8. 31.
Integrity In contrast to symbiotic union, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's integrity, one's individuality. Love is an active power in man; a power which breaks throush the walls which separate man from his fellows men, which unites him with others; love makes him overcome the sense of isolation and separateness, yet it permits him to be himself, to retain his integrity. In love.. 2008. 8. 31.
love in modern society / 현대사회의 사랑이란 ... within reach of one's own possibilities for exchange. I am out for bargain. ... Two persons thus fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market, considering the limitations of their own exchange values. p. 3, Art of loving, Fromm. (현대인의 사랑은 각자를 각자의 경제적 능력과 성적 매력에 따라 상품화한 시장에서의 교환행위라고 할 수 있다.) 2008. 8. 24.